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Answering the question how many singles in our society there are we should also answer another question, how many of them are eager to start new life and to stop being singles at last? These two points are very closely connected with each other because considering them together we can explain why nearly half of the people we call singles aren't singles indeed.
It is true, that there are a lot of singles that are completely satisfied with their lives and under no circumstances will they lose their "loneliness", with another word, the feeling of freedom. When you have nobody to waste time and money on, nobody who would tell you what to do - what can be better?
Sometimes feeling of being single gives people the sense of being more protected, more sure of themselves. It helps many people to prevent unpleasant situations and avoid troubles in the future. Maybe such ones are just afraid to lose their freedom? They are self-sufficient and adore their loneliness and want nobody to interfere in their life.
Can loneliness be considered by singles to be a sort of protection from other people? Many singles think it is an attempt to look for yourself not in others, but in yourself. It is said to be necessary for everyone. It is like air... And sometimes it is necessary simply to help to look around. And to understand that not only the loneliness is that what is so significant in your life. To understand that you are surrounded with people, maybe with singles too, and that you should learn to trust them.
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