Pan pals or pets?

Most of parents even do not know how lonely their children might be. It is good if you live in a good neighborhood with many other children. Your child can also have friends at school. Then again, very many children try to find pan pals, saying about their lonliness in their ads. They also ask parents to find a pet.

When children ask parents to bring to their houses any living being, any pet the first reaction of any adult, as a rule, is sorting out all negative sides of this step. Here they are frightened by extra homework, expenditures to the feeding, and other troubles. Or they recall about the fact that the hamsters terribly smell, it is necessary always to go for a walk with the dogs, and to small fishes to constantly change water.Terrible prospects are piled up in the imagination of parents, leading them to paralysis with one thought alone about any, even the smallest, domestic animal.

But almost no one thinks, that besides the difficulties presence of small friend in the family gives the set of positive moments, much more important, than all enumerated above "against". For example, animals complete to children the shortage of parental love, they can play with the little-ones, waking up the mass of positive emotions. But positive emotions - this is outstanding medicine for the depression, the aggression, the neuroses! Domestic wards it teaches child to kindness, responsibility, to skill it worries about others, in a word, they help to bring up in it the qualities, necessary for any person. And your child will find a nice and true friend. Do not forget about this.

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