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The most efficient method of meeting foreign pen pals is looking for them on the Internet. If you intend to find a friend you should know that there are some things you must do first of all. To begin with you should form a plan of looking for your future friends.
Find several addresses of web sites, compose your personal ad, have your photo made and put them on a dating site. You have no problems with dating sites of different agencies today. If you want to meet a foreign pen pal you should apply to an international agency and ask professionals to help you if you have any difficulties composing your ad. The will help you with pleasure.
Imagine you have received the first letters (and you are surely going to receive a lot of letters as far as you put your ad). Then you may ask what you shall do next?
And next you have to work a little. Try to understand what people from all the pen pals you got acquainted with fit you most of all. You are sure to have several people who don't suit you at all. But it does not mean that you must stop writing them without saying a word. It is necessary to give a polite refusal so that people know that they don't need to spend their time on writing to you any more.
Politeness is the most important thing when you are looking for acquaintance no matter how large is the number of your new contacts. Anyway, it will never hurt.
While writing letters don't hide what you really want or intend to do. Nobody but you knows what you actually want. So tell them about it. Maybe it will help those who have other aspirations different from yours to stop pelting you with letters in vain. In such a way you will save your time and efforts too.
But if you are sure to have found your only one, be careful not to give your address to unknown people without getting to know them better. It may be very dangerous - appearances are deceptive!
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