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Here I will tell you how to correspond with foreign pen pals if you already have some and how to start corresponding with foreign men if you have never done it but wish to do. The first recommendation is to be honest with yourself and to ask yourself what you are looking for. Are you looking for your future husband or would you like to practice a foreign language or probably would you like just to enjoy corresponding with your pen pals? As soon as you have decided what is your goal you always have to follow it.
Then you should be honest with the pen pals. Don't conceal what you like and what you don't like, tell him about your dreams, hopes, wishes. The only thing you need is to be yourself. Don't try to please everyone. If you are looking for a partner he will be very disappointed when you meet in the real life and find out that you are different.
Be frank; don't hide your feelings. Tell your pen pals about your impressions, events that are happening in your life in details. Make the first move in opening your soul and he will open his.
Be cheerful! Don't take the correspondence too seriously. If you are not cheerful and if you don't tell the pen pals some funny and interesting stories from your life they will think that you are not interested in them.
The last piece of advice is to write without mistakes because your letter is your portrait.
Surely, you shouldn't follow these pieces of advice as they are. You should recall your life experience, take this advice and invent your own rules of corresponding.
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