What should the first letter to one of your pen pals be about?

Why do people usually start looking for pen pals? There are various reasons for it. First, many people search for pen pals because they just feel bored and have nobody to talk to. They want nothing else but just to meet an interesting person to share new events in life with and to discuss things of common interest. Second, some people intend to practice their language skills. They start looking for a foreign pen pal so that they will be able to get an opportunity to improve their language knowledge. Third, a lot of people start writing letters to others because they hope to find a partner abroad and start dating them. Dating online is getting exceedingly popular with a lot of people nowadays. It is very comfortable to get acquainted with a number of people and then to choose a date among tem without even leaving your computer!

To begin with you have to understand what you need a pen pal for? Before writing a letter you should think what you are going to do with this or that person. Decide, whether you are just about to start correspondence with several pen pals, or you need a friend? Maybe you want to find something more than just a friend: a person to start romantic relationship with or, maybe, the only one you will marry? Only after you have made a decision you can start writing the first letter.

Let's concentrate on what you shall write in the first letter in case you want to find a partner for serious relationship or for marriage. Why don't you begin by introducing yourself, mentioning your interests, describing your native town and so on. A person to whom you are going to send a letter for the first time will appreciate it if, except the general information on your personality, you write there about your aims in life, about the way you see your future. That is why you should compose the first letter and send it to all the people you will like most of all. This letter must be thought over very carefully; read it several times and correct all the mistakes you can see. No matter whom you send the letter, it must contain some information about your ideas and prospects for the future, which will prove your seriousness and purposefulness. Those who intend to find a wife or a husband will like it; and those who have no inclinations of being involved in a serious relationship won't waste your time. Actually, it is also very telling of the aspirations of the people who choose to write to you.

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