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It is widely accepted that if one has never loved or has never been loved people can regard one as a person that have played away one's life. It is really one more question itself whether one can be sure she or he is able to enjoy life in a proper way if one has never received love letters, never believed in love at first sight, and never affirmed one's love for anybody? To all appearances, the greater part of people will just sympathize with such a poor one and agree that one can not.
Are there people on earth who have other opinions? Unfortunately, there are people who can even be envious of those who have never faced love in their life and whose best dating advice would sound as under no circumstances will you fall in love with anybody. We shouldn't be surprised at dating advice like that but just remember the notion "unrequited love", that is familiar nearly to everyone, after all.
What on earth is one to do when he falls in love with a person that doesn't want to love him back? Some people suffer from unrequited love all their life long without even trying to change their love object. They live in the hope that one day their dreams will come true and they will manage to conquer the loved one. Their friends', relatives' and also psychologists' efforts to give them a piece of dating advice that can help them to change the situation for the better that turn out to be lost labor.
For this reason or other, one sometimes continues loving the other very long without paying attention to people who probably could make a match for him. Maybe, if he paid attention he would be happy with somebody and would only smile understanding how foolish he was. Unfortunately, very often one realizes such things too late and, of course, gets deeply disappointed that he had all his trouble for nothing.
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